We had a really rare weekend last weekend where Tim actually had 3 days off in a row by coincidence. I am pretty sure this hasn't happened since we have moved to this part of the country. We tried to take advantage of it as much as possible by of course getting things done around the house. We finally found some time to do a good cleaning, which was badly needed and of course we spent the day Saturday testing out potty training boot camp, which I must say was an abysmal failure of epic proportions. What we have on our hands is a little dude who operates with a severe case of "My way or the highway." While his persistence and conviction that his way is right may well serve him well later in life, until he gets the finer points of what is and is not socially acceptable, we'll have to keep fighting the battles that need to be fought and letting him figure out the rest. So with his little "my way or the highway" thing going on, you can imagine that our potty training boot camp was an epic failure (or did I already say that part?). I have read message boards that simply letting your non-interested potty trainee run around with out anything on from the waist down...that lasted 15 minutes, then "my way or the highway" man started complaining that he was naked and needed clothes on and that his rumpus was cold. So I told him that he could have some big boy underwear, but he would need to keep them dry and to let us know when he felt like he had to go and we would help him out. He lasted 6 hours of holding the pee, including through a 3 hour nap!!! He is a stubborn one! Just as we got out some games to play to pass the time, he forgot to hold it and then announced halfway through that he was going. We comforted him, told him that everyone has accidents, and cleaned him up. Half and hour later, he was outside grilling with Daddy and had a repeat performance. After another clean up and some dinner, we headed upstairs for some potty sitting, where he proceeded to sit and fidget on the potty for almost 45 minutes. He produced nothing, was too distracted to actually do anything and then when we finally cut him off and told him it was time for pajamas and bed, he screamed that he had to go. Sound like manipulation much??? Oh yeah, we were seeing ourselves becoming huge victims here. So we did the next step in our boot camp plan. In the event o epic failure, bail out and run the other way. I have actually read and heard from a couple of sources that the absolute best thing to do with a potty resistant little person is to stop caring, stop bringing it up, stop pressuring, and let them have control and tell you when they want to start the process. So we packed up all the potty paraphrenalia, made a big production of putting it in the shed and told him he would have to tell us when he wanted to use the potty. And that was that. Incidentally, Wednesday night he randomly announced that he really needed to go right before his bath, forcing Tim to run to the shed to retrieve a potty chair. He managed to hold it until the potty arrive and as soon as he sat down he peed in the potty like he had been doing it for years. We've seen no repeat performances since, but at least we know he can physically do it now.
After such a failed day Saturday, we decided that out of the house was a better idea for Sunday, so we headed to one of the local beaches. Now, keep in mind that a beach around here is lake shore, not ocean front property, so that is something to get used to for us. Sylvan beach is perhaps not one of the first choice places to make a first impression of the lakes and the beach scene around the area. Its not one of the nicer beaches we have been to, but perhaps my expectations are too high having grown up in Maine near the Atlantic. Noah did have a great time playing in the sand and getting dirty. We were all fine until a 4 foot long dead fish carcass washed up on the beach just down the beach from us! Um, disgusting!!! Thankfully, it was getting close to Noah's naptime, so we packed up and headed for home. We'll have to do more research next time on where to find a clean, family-friendly beach around here.
I have to say at least we enjoyed each other's company and the down time we had for a change. We all know down time is going to be a hot commodity soon!

